Connect to Unconditional Love and Truth

Welcome back to step four in our six step article series on the Secure Husband Process. So step one, you noticed—you just noticed where you’ve been abandoning yourself. Step two, you made the conscious, courageous decision to take action. Now we’ll figure out what that action is later. In step three, you learned a dialogue … Read more

Heal Your Wounded Inner Child

In step one, you just noticed. In step two, you chose intentionally to act. And in step three, we’re gonna heal the wounded child. I. Welcome back to The Secure Husband Article, Bruce Abbott, certified professional coach and founder of SecureHusband.com, where I help good men stop feeling lost in their marriage. This is the … Read more

Choose to Act in Your Marriage

On our last article, we learned how to notice and be curious, and just be aware of what’s going on inside of you. Now we make a decision. We choose to act and move from noticing to intention. Welcome back to The Secure Husband Article, Bruce Abbott, certified professional coach and founder of SecureHusband.com, where … Read more

The Power of Awareness in Healing Your Marriage

In the next six episodes, I’m going to go into detail about the Secure Husband Process and help clarify the different steps. I’ve received so many comments, DMs, and questions about how to actually put this into action. So, let’s start right here—with the first step: noticing. This is where awareness begins. It’s where you … Read more

How To Handle Disrespect In Marriage Without Losing Your Cool

If you’re a married man who feels disrespected by your wife, it’s probably eating away at you. You don’t want to lash out. You don’t want to shut down. But the sarcasm, the eye rolls, the tone—it hits a nerve. It feels personal. It feels unfair. And it probably feels like it’s happening way too … Read more