In step one, you just noticed. In step two, you chose intentionally to act. And in step three, we’re gonna heal the wounded child. I. Welcome back to The Secure Husband Article, Bruce Abbott, certified professional coach and founder of SecureHusband.com, where I help good men stop feeling lost in their marriage. This is the … Read more
If you’re a married man who feels disrespected by your wife, it’s probably eating away at you. You don’t want to lash out. You don’t want to shut down. But the sarcasm, the eye rolls, the tone—it hits a nerve. It feels personal. It feels unfair. And it probably feels like it’s happening way too … Read more
Self-sacrifice is not love. It’s not leadership. It’s not strength. It’s not noble. It’s a lie that sounds right and feels right, but deep down it’s not love—it’s a trauma response. And if you’re a man who’s always bending over backward to keep the peace in your marriage… always giving and giving and giving while … Read more
Trying to control the uncontrollable is exhausting. And if you’re a husband who feels stuck, frustrated, or desperate for your wife to change—her affection, her interest in sex, her attitude toward you—you’re not alone. But the more you try to manage her emotions, the more disconnected things become. And it’s likely breaking your heart. You … Read more