Evaluate Your Results Honestly

So you noticed your emotional reactions and your circumstances. You made a choice to grow and show up differently. You connected with your inner child. You listened to your higher power for truth, you took loving action with courage and clarity and self-respect. And now we come to the final step of the Secure Husband … Read more

Take Loving Action

In this fifth part of our series, we’ve noticed we’ve made the decision to grow. We’ve connected with the scared inner boy inside of us, and we’ve listened to the voice of truth from our higher power. Now it’s time to act. Welcome back to The Secure Husband article, Bruce Abbott, certified professional coach and … Read more

Choose to Act in Your Marriage

On our last article, we learned how to notice and be curious, and just be aware of what’s going on inside of you. Now we make a decision. We choose to act and move from noticing to intention. Welcome back to The Secure Husband Article, Bruce Abbott, certified professional coach and founder of SecureHusband.com, where … Read more

The Power of Awareness in Healing Your Marriage

In the next six episodes, I’m going to go into detail about the Secure Husband Process and help clarify the different steps. I’ve received so many comments, DMs, and questions about how to actually put this into action. So, let’s start right here—with the first step: noticing. This is where awareness begins. It’s where you … Read more

How To Handle Disrespect In Marriage Without Losing Your Cool

If you’re a married man who feels disrespected by your wife, it’s probably eating away at you. You don’t want to lash out. You don’t want to shut down. But the sarcasm, the eye rolls, the tone—it hits a nerve. It feels personal. It feels unfair. And it probably feels like it’s happening way too … Read more