Why is it so hard for us to communicate our needs? Why do we struggle saying what we need? I always wondered that. Why did I have such a hard time communicating my needs without trying to control...

On my last article, I was talking about resistance. I got more than a handful of comments back from guys who didn’t really understand where I was going with that. So let’s go a little deeper into this...

Previously we went into depth over fear and how fear keeps us stuck. But there is an extension of fear that causes resistance. You notice it when you make a decision to heal. You are doing the work...

On a recent podcast, I said, what if you do all this work? You become secure and nothing changes. It is really important that you’re able to lead yourself even when your wife stays disconnected. Let...

Whether you realize it or not, you hold all the power for change. Here’s the deal. No one is coming to save you, but you hold all the cards. You hold the power to make change in your life. Your needs...

Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway. That’s the title of one of my favorite books of all time by the late Susan Jeffers. And it perfectly illustrates why courage creates the secure husband. I’m Bruce...

Why do so many good men accept less than they deserve in marriage and in life? It’s because they’re settling. And settling isn’t love. It’s low self-worth. I work with good men who want to stop living...

So you noticed your emotional reactions and your circumstances. You made a choice to grow and show up differently. You connected with your inner child. You listened to your higher power for truth, you...

In this fifth part of our series, we’ve noticed we’ve made the decision to grow. We’ve connected with the scared inner boy inside of us, and we’ve listened to the voice of truth from our higher power...