Bruce Abbott

You Must Heal Yourself Before You Can Heal The Marriage

https://youtu.be/Zxs3CL3SBI0 You must heal the relationship with yourself before you can ever heal the relationship with others. For years I…

1 month ago

The Need For Connection Versus Neediness

https://youtu.be/ctVkb1IpE9U So how is our hardwired need for connection different than neediness? There’s a misconception that if you need connection,…

1 month ago

You Can’t Avoid Your Feelings

https://youtu.be/a4r5Hxglb7o Secure men don’t stuff their emotions. They feel them and they lead through them. When I started on this…

1 month ago

I Had A Good Childhood, So Why Am I Struggling?

https://youtu.be/5Tt8bBzRhC8 But I had a good childhood, so why is this affecting my marriage? A comment that’s made over and…

1 month ago

The Pursuer-Distancer Dynamic

https://youtu.be/UajWqeblC5A In this corner we have the pursuer. And in this corner, the distancer. Have you ever heard of the…

1 month ago

Why Is It Hard To Communicate Our Needs?

https://youtu.be/XZJHXOPn64c Why is it so hard for us to communicate our needs? Why do we struggle saying what we need?…

3 months ago

More About Hidden Resistance: It’s Blocking Your Healing

https://youtu.be/33pgmTs9RQ4 On my last article, I was talking about resistance. I got more than a handful of comments back from…

3 months ago

Is Hidden Resistance Keeping You Stuck?

https://youtu.be/St4aRdzXx18 Previously we went into depth over fear and how fear keeps us stuck. But there is an extension of…

3 months ago

When You Do the Work and Nothing Changes in Marriage

https://youtu.be/K01MHuQm5vI On a recent podcast, I said, what if you do all this work? You become secure and nothing changes.…

3 months ago

Stop Outsourcing Your Worth

https://youtu.be/7jJ3MyaKfDs Whether you realize it or not, you hold all the power for change. Here’s the deal. No one is…

3 months ago

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